The Marina Dock Newsletter March 2002
Dear Marina Dock members and patrons alike, it’s March! “Comes in like a lamb
and goes out like a lion”. Ideally, for The Marina Dock, it would be nice
if March came in like a lion and went out an even bigger lion. February
sure was financially slow. We, you may have noticed, are continuing to redefine
the place and while maintaining our philosophy of compassion, acceptance,
and safety. We always need and value your support, especially at this time
of the year.
16 YEARS AND COUNTING
In February, 2002, the Marina / Dry Dock celebrated its sixteenth year
at 2118 Greenwich Street. Although I mentioned in an earlier newsletter how
the place came about as the brainchild of David M (now living in Florida),
it needs to be reiterated for those who are new. In 1986, the recovery movement
found itself without a home again. David, whom I think it is fair to say,
is probably one of the most unassuming, modest individuals you would meet
in a day’s walk stepped up to the plate, and on a borrowed credit card with
a $1,500 limit secured a three-year lease. I cannot emphasize enough how much
we are indebted to this guy. David is the kind of person I would call upon
when things get rocky. A great listener with a heart of gold.
Georgie M: It is impossible to mention David and exclude his soul
mate, companion and wife of multiple years Georgie, who dazzled all of us
with her scintillating Southern charm. These two showed me how to live life
on life’s terms without ever giving me advice or talking down to me. In fact,
they never once criticized or commented on anything I said or did. Anyone
who knows me knows that, in itself, requires the maximum amount of
restraint and tolerance. Paradoxically, it was because they said nothing that
I heard what they said. We shared some great moments of laughter and
sadness together.
In January 2002, the following article appeared in the AA Grapevine. We
reproduce it here in full.
I don’t think any further comment is necessary, once you have read it…
MY NEW SAN FRANCISCO
"For years, I was a regular visitor to San
Francisco. Stationed there with the Coast Guard, I had learned to drink
vodka with orangeade in the city. Later, I fell in love with it under the
influence of gin and the romantic wail of foghorns.
Then came sobriety and with it the regret
that I’d never enjoy this beautiful city again. I was certain the carpet
of fun had been jerked from beneath me.
After three years of sobriety, I had occasion
to go back to San Francisco, and I was filled with trepidation. With my
AA resources in hand, I found the Marina (Dry) Dock, one of those gathering
places where meetings go from dawn to past dusk. In the embrace of its friendly
rooms, I learned about a San Francisco I’d never known.
“It’s not such a big city,” said my AA
friend Maryanne. “You can walk almost everywhere.”
And I did. Instead of lingering over martinis,
I trekked the hidden trails near Coit Tower, where the trees are alive with
feral parrots. I explored the grassy parks of the Marina, drinking in the
twinkling lights of the Golden Gate Bridge instead of cheap red wine. And
in Chinatown, I traded in Singapore slings and mai tais for dim sum and
almond cookies.
My new San Francisco was more fascinating
and more fun than any city I’d ever known. After nearly fifteen years of
sobriety, I still discover a “first” on every visit – thanks to Alcoholics
Anonymous.”
Jim U. Salt
Lake City, Utah
Copyright © by the AA Grapevine, Inc.;
reprinted with permission
RIKKI, WE’LL USE THAT LUMBER [1]
The upgrade of the Marina Dock facility for members and patrons continues
under the able stewardship of Richard W. We hope to wrap up this phase
of our on-going development in the next month or two. Your patience and flexibility
as we progress through the construction is very much appreciated.
COFFEE
I’ve heard it said that the Marina Dock is “the 7-11 of recovery” in this
City that Always Sleeps. Did you know that the Marina Dock is the only
place in San Francisco where you can get a decent cup of coffee after 10:00
pm, 365 days of the year? So come on down, and leave room for cream
a meeting.
Fourth Step block? Bear in mind that “as soon as coffee is in your stomach,
there is a general commotion. Ideas begin to move ... similes arise, the paper
is covered. Coffee is your ally and writing ceases to be a struggle.”
(Honoré de Balzac 1799-1859)
MA MEETING?
Anyone interested in starting or attending a Marijuana Anonymous meeting
should leave their telephone number at the front desk or e-mail webmaster@marinadock.org.
AS BILL (GATES) SEES IT
I was reading recently in the Financial Times about how .ORG websites
were proving so successful. We practice progress not perfection, and now is
your chance to move into the mid-1990’s by checking out our website. WWW.MARINADOCK.ORG
is a great source of information about our workshops and meetings,
our history and more. It contains all the recent newsletters,
testimonials and answers to frequently asked questions. You
can now make donations online, and contemplate the Big Book being read
to you online from recoveryzone.org. If you want to receive updates
and this newsletter through e-mail, then e-mail webmaster@marinadock.org.
WWW.MARINADOCK.ORG
A recovery-oriented,
multilingual, non-profit web site that meets the requirements of Section
508 of the Federal Government's Rehabilitation Act Amendments of 1998 and
is accessed monthly by over 10,000 individual, governmental, commercial
and non-profit organization users in more than 15 countries.
(February 2002 figures)
“Treat a man as he is, and he will
remain as he is; treat a man as he can and should be, and he will become
as he can and should be.”
(Johann Wolfgang von Goethe
1749-1832)
LIVE AND LET LIVE
Acting
totally in our self-interest is shortsighted and foolishly simple. Attacking
another person or another nation reflects upon us like a mirror. When any
person is undermined, the human race is diminished in some measure. And
humanity is our family. Sometimes we see a reflection of ourselves in someone
else and fail to recognize it. What we hate most in another may well be
what we hate in ourselves. Knowing this can be useful. Perhaps our teeth
are set on edge when we think about an ex-wife, or father, or former friend,
or a religious or racial group. How are we like that person or group? What
do they cause us to face within ourselves? When we stop diminishing the
other person we may still not like him or her, but we can come to terms
with ourselves. We learn to live and let live.
(From Daily Reflections, August 12)
NEW WORKSHOPS
Following the success of
the February AA Secretary’s Workshop,
March sees two new weekly workshops
at the Marina Dock. Firstly, the Fitness and Wellness Workshop with
Rick M. Rick is a founder of Forty Plus Fitness, and a graduating
senior in Kinesiology at San Francisco State University. See
www.bigbandworkout.com
for more information and check our schedule for the
workshop times.
Secondly, the Relaxation
and Meditation Workshop with Swami Satyambrananda,
who was born in India, educated in the Vedic traditions and scriptures and
spent much time meditating in the Himalayas. He has taught yoga and meditation
to thousands of people for over 35 years. Sunday evenings at 7:30 pm.
TURNING IT OVER
I have decided to turn
the technical production and editing of the schedule and the monthly
newsletter over to the indefatigable Ultan. Actually, this has
been a reality for probably a year now - it’s just that I am a
little slow at accepting the obvious. My experience in this arena
is that my interaction with the physical and material world changes
slowly over a segment of time followed by acceptance and adjustment
to that reality intellectually, spiritually, and emotionally.
Can anyone relate?
The solution is love. Until next time,
Anthony T Murray (“Irish Tony”)
[1] (Apologies to Walter B. and Donald
F.)